This morning, I'm taking my youngest son to his first organized sports activity: soccer for 3-year-olds. Later, we're stopping by a friend's house, and then I'm taking my older son to a miniature golf birthday party, and somewhere in there hitting the back-to-school picnic at my kids' elementary school if we can squeeze it in.It's a day full of plans, something that's taken me aback a bit. Before all this happened, we had planned a family event for this weekend, and when my wife suggested this particular date, I said, "No way." No one's going to want to go to anything on the 10th anniversary of 9/11.So we moved our thing to September 10, which was lucky only because it turned out seemingly everyone had something they wanted to do on September 11, and I'm